Mar
23rd
By
Ruby Constance
Hello. I don't know where to start.... So My husband doesn't help me with anything. In all truth he is a hinderer. He is messy, and dirty. He does not care for self cleanliness. Nor does he ever pick up after himself. There is one thing he helps around the house with only the trash when I ask him. He continues to do the things I ask him not too, that would help me out. I don't know if just laziness or he has not grown up or he doesn't care or he was never taught to be socially responsible.We really don't have intimacy, nor emotional intimacy. He is to busy to really get to know me and that is a business he creates. He has no desire to KNOW another person.Maybe that is to dangerous emotionally or something.It is so so hard! I know men in general do alot less than women and I am ok with that. But I am not overeacting when I say I have NO help at all except monetary. I am kinda falling to pieces. I feel very used and taken advantage of. Not taken care of at all.It is as if he turned me off to say if you don't like it what can you do? I pray he would care for some of the things that mean so much to me, that he would love me by paying attention, and just TRY to help in our life...IT is OUR life and OUR home. Just trying is something.Thank you and God bless you all.