Mar
23rd
By
Ruby Constance
Hello. I don't know where to start.... So My husband doesn't help
me with anything. In all truth he is a hinderer. He is messy,
and dirty. He does not care for self cleanliness. Nor does he ever
pick up after himself. There is one thing he helps around the
house with only the trash when I ask him. He continues to do the
things I ask him not too, that would help me out. I don't know if
just laziness or he has not grown up or he doesn't care or he was
never taught to be socially responsible.We really don't have
intimacy, nor emotional intimacy. He is to busy to really get to
know me and that is a business he creates. He has no desire to KNOW
another person.Maybe that is to dangerous emotionally or
something.It is so so hard! I know men in general do alot
less than women and I am ok with that. But I am not overeacting
when I say I have NO help at all except monetary. I am kinda
falling to pieces. I feel very used and taken advantage of. Not
taken care of at all.It is as if he turned me off to say if you
don't like it what can you do? I pray he would care for some of the
things that mean so much to me, that he would love me by paying
attention, and just TRY to help in our life...IT is OUR life and
OUR home. Just trying is something.Thank you and God bless you all.